in a world where 'selfish' is almost a four letter word...should its meaning and connotation change? yes. try selfish on for size. your mental and emotional health is dependent on it.
today we're talking home-buying (life-changing, awful, scary, don't-get-your-hopes-up-or-you'll-die, exciting, alcohol-inducing home-buying).
spoiler: i'm not qualified for this.